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How to not take it personal

Lesson 5 from: Sales Mastery Bootcamp for Freelancers: Sell More Services

Scott Lancaster

How to not take it personal

Lesson 5 from: Sales Mastery Bootcamp for Freelancers: Sell More Services

Scott Lancaster

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Lesson Info

5. How to not take it personal

<b>Learn to detach emotionally from client rejections and maintain a positive mindset.</b>

Lessons

Class Trailer
1

Getting over the fear of rejection

04:23
2

Why you should leave a Zoom call after 3 minutes

04:24
3

How to never chase clients ever again

04:13
4

How not to feel nervous on sales calls

05:23
5

How to not take it personal

05:46
6

Slow & Steady vs Fast & Many

06:11
7

The importance of being accountable

04:12
8

The importance of being invested and excited

04:56
9

Understanding the difference between features VS benefits

04:48
10

Assignment - Mindset & Motivation segment

02:39
11

Helpful Doctor Approach

03:58
12

Breathing method for better sales calls

02:40
13

Managing your clients’ expectations

07:41
14

How to smartly discover your clients’ budget

05:29
15

How to come across as more confident

09:18
16

How to improve your pacing

04:19
17

How to structure a sales call

09:28
18

Ghost Opening Method

04:18
19

High converting sales funnel

09:17
20

Shock Method

04:41
21

The Halo Effect

03:04
22

Organizing portfolio to win more clients

03:23
23

Build trust using science

02:42
24

Showing calendar during call

03:57
25

Building unbreakable rapport

04:33
26

Sharing relevant stories

02:44
27

Using numbers to make prices make sense

03:21
28

Using urgency and scarcity

04:38
29

The parrot and captain technique

03:31
30

Using FOMO

02:51
31

The power of mirroring

04:38
32

Always put your clients’ needs first

03:34
33

Assignment for sales techniques

01:53
34

The one who cares least wins

03:27
35

How to price your services

06:38
36

Handling clients who are bullying you

04:11
37

Connecting with clients’ dreams

04:07
38

How to use trial closes and assumptive selling

03:17
39

How to overcome challenging objections

08:20
40

When to mention pricing

03:59
41

Assignment for negotiation techniques

01:22
42

How to get video testimonials for your website

03:53
43

Setting up automated Calendly meetings

02:35
44

How to strategically improve your website using Hotjar

02:23
45

How to get more clients

05:02
46

How to get clients to pay more

04:34
47

Do you need to be liked as a salesperson?

02:56
48

3 reasons why freelancers lose sales

05:27
49

What makes a good vs bad salesperson

02:44
50

How many options should you give clients?

01:32
51

How to know when a client just wants a discount

02:40
52

How to know when a client is interested in your service

02:00
53

When a client doesn't reply

03:28
54

How to practice your sales techniques

03:04
55

How to ask high-quality questions

02:48
56

Which social media platform is best for getting clients

03:54
57

Which social proof is best for winning new clients

03:27
58

How I sold a 10k website with one single email

02:58
59

How to manage prospects and follow-ups

04:14
60

What to do when you screw up on a project

02:38
61

How to handle a client who wants a refund

04:10
62

When a client wants lots of revisions

03:32
63

How to spot a nightmare client

02:17
64

How long should you small talk?

01:07
65

Should you spend time creating proposals?

01:35
66

How to get a sale without being too pushy

01:22
67

What to do when a client says you are too expensive

03:46
68

Assignment - common questions

01:32
69

Realizing who your most valuable customer is

03:32
70

How to use discounts to charge more

01:53
71

Price anchoring technique

02:43
72

Creating product flow and product expansion

02:34
73

How to win client loyalty for the long term

01:09
74

Last assignment project

04:14

Lesson Info

How to not take it personal

What to do when a client says no and rejects your proposal. Now, listen, there are tons of reasons why a client may say no, maybe you're too expensive, maybe you're just not the right fit. Maybe the client has a cousin that does the exact same service and they think that they can do it just as well. Now, one thing we need to remember is that we can only control what we can control. Ok. So the first thing that you need to think about when you get rejected by a client and the client says no to your proposal. How can I best assess a situation and learn from it? That is literally the first thing that you should be thinking every single time. So every time that a client says no to my proposal, I do two things and I do these two things no matter what the client says to me. And the first thing that I always do is I just ask very directly, just out of curiosity. I was just wondering because we had a really great conversation with each other initially and we seemed like a great fit. What was it...

that stopped us from working together. I'm just wondering because if there's something that we can do our side to help us be the perfect fit, then I'll be more than happy to explore it together. Now, this is a win win situation for you because in one case, they just don't reply and you haven't really learned anything. So it's not really a win, but it's not really a negative either. And secondly, they're gonna get back to you with a reason for not going ahead with you. And if you hadn't sent that message initially, then you would never know. So you've kind of got a 5050 chance pretty much. And to be honest, I'd say more of a 9010 chance because most of the time they will get back to you just say, listen, either you were too expensive, which you can do something about if you really want to work with them and take on the project, you can reduce your price and say, listen, I never really do usually do this, but I really like the project. If I could get it down to 80 per cent of the original cost, would you go ahead today? So giving them an incentive to actually close on the deal more rapidly or maybe they just weren't ready or maybe they don't have the budget either way. There are tons of different reasons why they may not want to go ahead. But ultimately, it all comes down to understanding what the reason is. So you can adjust and learn from it in future. And then the second thing that I do, if either they don't tell me the reason why they don't want to go ahead with me or they don't answer me is I get back to them with a helpful email. So what do I mean by a helpful email? Well, I have expertise in branding, brand, naming, brand strategy, website development, logo design in design in general and I can give them guidance and support in all of those areas. Now, it takes me three minutes to write an email, right? It's not a great amount of time, but I want to basically leave the conversation open so that if they go to another freelancer and that other freelancer doesn't serve them well or the result is not quite what they expected, guess who they're going to come back to. So for example, maybe I've just helped the company find the perfect brand name and they are wanting to go somewhere else for their logo design because our packages are around $ and they want to pay $500. So I say, hey guys, thank you so much for your transparency. If they get back to me, if they don't, then that's fine as well. And I'll just say something else. Thank you so much for working with us in regards to the brand naming. I know that obviously the next step is naturally to develop your logo design. And obviously we are here and we do you have packages and I'll link it to our package page on our website. So if you do want to work with us again, please let me know. I'm more than happy to work with you again. If you don't, that's absolutely fine. I just want to make sure that you are fully supported by us and you have all the guidance that you need to take the brand name that we've already developed for you and to develop an incredible captivating logo, that's really going to capture the attention of your target audience. So at any point during the process of working with someone else, if you have any questions whatsoever, please, please let me know I'm here to help. And I mean that now this particular email, a couple of very important things. Firstly, it shows that I actually care because if a client is not directly working with you, they're not paying me anymore. But I'm actively going out of my way even when they have not responded to me to say, listen, I know you're doing your logo and you may not have a lot of experience in regards to that. If you need any help, any support, no charge, absolutely free. Pop me an email. I'm more than happy to give you my unbiased opinion. And ultimately what generally happens and I have, you know, maybe 10 emails that I could show you right now that showcase clients who have sent me logos. And then ultimately, what they do is they don't like the logos that have been sent because obviously they've paid next to nothing for them. And then they end up securing a package with me because I actually know what I'm doing. And if you have expertise in any sort of area, you should be doing this as well. Because if you can point out the good and the bad things about the solution that someone else has provided, then the client knows that you're not just looking out for yourself, you're looking out for them. And that is a trust which is beyond comprehension. You cannot believe the persuasion that you have and the level of confidence that the client in you now that you've actually taken time out of your valuable day and schedule to help them. So just to summarize, do not take it personally when a client says no, instead follow the two steps that I stated in this lesson and you are going to find yourself in so many more situations where clients are ready to hand you money. I hope this lesson was valuable, really excited to see you in the next one. So I will see you very soon.

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